Combine wet into dry. Stir just until mixed — don't overwork it.
Pour batter into the screaming hot skillet. It should sizzle.
Cover with foil or close the grill lid. Cook at 400°F (or over medium-high coals) for 20-25 minutes until golden on top and a toothpick comes out clean.
Let it cool 5 minutes in the skillet. Slice into wedges. Hit it with a pat of butter.
Serve alongside brisket, ribs, or whatever the pit produced. Cornbread doesn't compete with the meat — it completes it.